5 Reasons A Guy Will Break Up With The Woman He’s In Love With
Falling in love can be really intense. That’s why so many peoples love lives are like an emotional roller coaster with all sorts of twists and turns, exhilarating highs, and stomach sinking lows. When we form a deeply meaningful connection with another person it’s bound to be full of all different types of experiences that leave us confused and overwhelmed. It’s hard to share such a big part of your life with someone else and trust them with your heart.
While we all approach relationships in different ways and look for specific things, when it comes to men and women, men often take longer to open up and fully commit. When a man is falling in love he often hesitates at each major stage of the relationship and holds himself back. That’s because men think about the hurt, pain, and suffering that could come out of a failed romance. In the same way men fear rejection so much more than women, they also innately fear being emotionally wounded by someone they’re in love with.
There are several reasons why a man might choose to leave the woman he loves. Ten of them are covered in the accompanying 60 second video clip and five more are explored in-depth below:
1. Unjust Scrutiny:
When a woman is always comparing and contrasting him against other men, whether it’s scrutinizing him against her ex, a male family member, or a close friend, it’s never comfortable or welcome. It’s also really unfair. Who would want to be measured or judged like that? When it comes down to it, a man is who he is. He doesn’t want to hear about who did what for the woman he is currently with, so keep your thoughts on your ex to yourself!
2. Threatened By Her Success:
Men often feel threatened by a woman’s success. When a woman is more successful in terms of money, a job, and her career, her male partner is rarely ever truly happy for her. Instead, men view a woman’s success in a negative light, it’s threatening and studies have found that their levels of self-esteem are markedly lower in comparison to men who are the more successful partners in their relationships. A man is also more likely to leave a successful woman when he’s less successful because it makes him feel like a failure or unworthy of her love.
3. Trying To Change Him:
Many women try to mold a man into what they see as their ideal partner. Constantly trying to change someone shows that you’re focused on what you see as their shortcomings and that you feel they’re not enough as they are. We all have our flaws, but when a woman tries to fix a man, he will likely end up despising her for it. Instead of altering him, support his decisions and everything else about him, whether that be his looks, view points and opinions, way of doing things, his schedule and more.
4. Constant Nagging:
The cause of many relationship issues often stems from incessant worrying and whining. When a woman is constantly complaining, or reminding her partner to do something, it gets old fast. For many men the repeated requests go in one ear and right out the other, they tune them out. Nobody likes to be ignored and so this leads to even more nagging behavior, fights, hurt feelings, and eventually a breakup.
5. Smothering:
We all need our own time and space to do what we want. Just like women, men need the freedom to be able to hang out with their friends and be on their own every now and then. If a woman is too overly attached, or both partners grow to be emotionally co-dependent on one another, it ends up dooming the relationship. A man who feels trapped and unable to do his own thing will eventually leave so that he’s free to do exactly that once again.
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5 Reasons a Woman Will Break Up With The Guy She’s In Love With
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Many people find that falling in love is easy, it’s breaking up that’s the hard part. When people decide to end a relationship it can be very messy, emotional, and intense. After being committed to someone else and sharing your life with them, how could it not be difficult to let them go?
While each of us looks for certain qualities and different things in a partner, when it comes to women they often fall harder and commit faster to a relationship than men do. Men tend to be more cautious because they’re more likely to think about the eventual heartbreak that could come from a breakup. In contrast, when a woman is falling in love she doesn’t hesitate or hold herself back, nor is she likely to take into account the possible hurt and pain of a failed romance.
At the same time, if a woman feels she is in a relationship that is going nowhere or one that’s unhealthy, she also won’t hesitate to end it. There are many reasons why a woman will choose to leave the man she loves. The accompanying video covers twelve of them and five more are examined further below:
1) Her Man Lacks Spontaneity:
Men often settle down into very predictable routines and follow certain patterns as they age. They develop their own way of doing things, and that’s fine, but women need a little bit of spontaneity every once in awhile. The same old thing over and over gets boring, there’s no excitement in the expected. Men need to show a spark of impulsiveness and do something special for their woman if they want to keep them around and happy. Take her out to her favorite restaurant, buy her something nice, make her breakfast in bed one morning, write her a sweet note. It doesn’t have to be some grand, expensive to-do, just a small thoughtful gesture is all a woman needs to feel loved and appreciated.
2) Considerable Life Change(s):
Men and women age differently and there are certain momentous occasions that a woman may find herself going through. These include kids leaving and moving out of the house, menopause, caring for their parents, and other major milestones or issues that may arise like illness or a sudden death in the family. If her man is not by her side supporting and helping her through all these types of changes and more, then why would she ever choose to stay with him. After all, if your partner isn’t with you when the times are good and bad, then he’s just not worth it.
3) Her Man Is Absent:
When a man is always gone and doing his own thing, a woman will quickly get tired of him being physically not there and leave him. Women need someone they can turn to and trust to be by their side when they need them the most. If a man is constantly leaving his woman alone, whether it be for work or out with his friends, then it makes her question why she’s even with him. A woman doesn’t need a man who is clingy or overly attached. Instead, being there with her and present physically, more often than not, can make a world of a difference. It shows that a man cares and wants to spend time with the woman he loves.
4) Loneliness:
When a woman feels alone, in that she is not being supported or loved in the way she wants and needs to be, don’t expect her to stick around. Women need a man who is present not only physically, but also emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. They crave a deeper connection that goes beyond the superficial. As such, when a relationship lacks meaningful conversation, love, and attention, then it lacks a reason for her to stay.
5) She Feels Taken for Granted:
Nothing kills the spark between a man and woman faster than a lack of communication. This often leads to women feeling as if they are not being truly acknowledged or supported, but rather taken for granted. Relationships are two-way streets and each person in them needs to pull their own weight. Men need to show they care and appreciate the woman in their life and it’s not very hard to do. Whether it’s helping with chores around the house, cooking, walking the dog, or anything else they can do to lend a helping hand, it will show they care and want to help support their partner.
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